My mother became ill in August 2008 with ovarian cancer. This is a story of the final months of an exceptional woman.

Saturday, October 11, 2008

Where is my Tongue Lodged?



Paul and I toiling through one of our typical days


Ariel Wusthoff works her Fifth Chakra, Yosemite 2007


Angelo Pagano: Bestower of Wonders!


My Home away from Home in San Fran: 1043 Steiner St.

Jeff trying to analyze me

" That Judy...I'll just try to humor her"

Miz Flounce and Sweet Queen Janita: 1983
Paul and Judy in Love

My New Sweet and Dewy Nature on Display


Recent comments posted to my blog reveal to me that those who do not know me do not realize that my tongue sometimes resides in my cheek.

I can see that my recent good health which fuels my written good humor appears to be drawing folks who, perhaps, should withdraw from Society and duke it out amongst themselves somewhere in the boonies of Idaho. Hint, hint...

We have had rains recently here that cause my newly minted garden to laugh and titter even as the evenings and days cool into a glorious Autumn. It is hard to imagine life in Shangri La much better than this.

Well, until Friday next when I will have more of my curative Witch's Brew shot into my veins. Then a week and change of slow motion agony.

For the moment I live in my newest warhorse of a saying..."make hay while the sunshines"!

You should do the same. Forget the stock market. It will correct (given a rough few years...probably for the best. We might live within our budgets and not consume the planet to extinction afterward). Right now I am a fervant fan of simplicity and deeply loving and enjoying my family and friends.

So I feel almost unnaturally grateful today. One person that is much on my mind is Angelo Pagano. He is truly amazing! Over the last two decades he has worked like a trojan for me to orchestrate trips to foreign countries and throughout California. Whenever I go anyplace where he is present I am treated like a Regal Personage. And, now that I am a bit under the weather, he spent hours and hours copying music I would like and put it on an Ipod he sent out to me so I can enjoy the best music at all times. Who can ask for a finer friend?! So many things I have been able to experience probably would not have happened but for him. Kisses and cudos to you, Angelo.

Less human (than Angelo that is) are the creatures and plants surrounding us here on the Lake and down in the swamps of Louisiana. As much as I love the clang of collecting trash cans at 5 AM in the morning in Rome or London or Manhattan or San Francisco it is the sound of the wind and birds that continually sustains me. Paul and I are so fortunate to have so much of the Earth's calming bounty laid before us every day.

Nature has always been important to Paul and I. These days we can hardly tear ourselves away from the unfolding drama of egrets, ducks and geese creating a dance of beauty every day. The hummingbirds and bugs rivet me. And the plants....magnificent.

One of my few concerns these days is for my daughter, Janet who is having a stressful time of it. Her husband, Chip, has a tumor in his stomach. It may be cancerous since he had a cancerous polyp removed just a short time ago. Rentals and the cost of living (with a child in college and another getting there soon) are also high in New Orleans and rough on her. Let us all send her our Blessings! (and a large anonymous check?). Chip we send our love. I certainly can empathize with his situation. My grandchildren, Ariel and Wolf are true sources of joy to me on a daily basis. But Janet is THE lovely, lovely person who always delights and invigorates me.

Someone was right in asserting the best things in life are free.


Wafting in a cloud of Noblesse Oblige,
Judy (via Jeff)

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

whats noblesse oblige? can I get some? tawny

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Vacherie, Louisiana, United States
Born in rural Arkansas my tongue took up residence in my cheek shortly thereafter. I use it to speak "Genteel Southern Lady". Cussin' I only use when provoked by the Uppity. Paul, my husband, and I have lived in Cajun Country for many years raising cane, twins (a boy and a girl; now adults? definitely old) and other mischief. Alligators, water moccassins and bears have tussled with me as I protect our swampy coastal farmstead. We are stuck now on lovely Lake Hamilton near Hot Springs where we have our second home. We have been here waiting for Godot since my heart valves blew out Late November 2007 and now with cancer diagnosed August 2008. The Furies have me in their sights... I am writing this blog to let my Beloveds know how I am doing so they will not "get off" in imagined ways on my dire straits. The reality is bad enough without turning my story into a B-grade movie of the mind. I know all of you wish me the very best. And I miss you! never no mind your fevered imaginations. This is as close as I can get to a fond and loving chat with you right now... Sadly, Judy aka Mizflounce passed away peacefully early on Sunday morning May 30th 2009 age 78.