My mother became ill in August 2008 with ovarian cancer. This is a story of the final months of an exceptional woman.

Wednesday, November 26, 2008

Happy Thanksgiving!

Happy Thanksgiving !
(especially to the dears at the Genesis Center
and Teri at the Arlington Hotel!)

I am going in today to be jabbed with those secret sauces that thicken my blood. I actually enjoy going to the Genesis Center since the staff there are so very wonderful to me and the views are of green trees and rolling hills. Lovely people and lovely scenery. The last time I was there some of the ladies kindly suggested they would adopt me!

Folks, even those you do not know, can be surprisingly kind. Paul and I considered having our Thanksgiving meal prepared and delivered but then we discovered that no one in this area does that. Amazingly, Teri the concierge at the Arlington Hotel here in Hot Springs (www.arlingtonhotel.com) went out of her way to arrange, ad hoc, a home delivery for us if we wanted it.

Teri...you are an angel!! Sorry I am not up to eating much. Your kind spirit alone infusing the food would have made it scrumptious. I wish for you every good thing in this world. How's that for generous? You deserve it!

Well, these wonderful folks plus certainly all of you are making this one of my best Thanksgivings ever even minus that ugly old turkey. Who needs that bird anyway when I am surrounded by peacocks like you!

I learned that Dr. Muldoon, my oncologist, wants to add one more chemotherapy after the one I have next week. Instead of five total I will be having six.

I am tolerating the chemotherapy so well I think he believes why not go for the gold! Jeff says that getting more than eight probably is of no extra benefit.

Good Lord...I hope Dr. Muldoon doesn't keep going after my just added sixth treatment???! Seven? Eight?

SO...Paul and I will be here by the Lake and not in Louisiana this Christmas. Maybe after the New Year?

Filled with
Admiration
and Gratitude,

Judy (via jeff)



2 comments:

Anonymous said...

Dear Brave Lady!

Well, your courage and resilience are becoming legendary! Yet another treatment! Wow! You must have some strong stuff in you, gal!

I loved watching the pictures on the blog of you. What I really want to know is how did you get Paul to sit still for such a time?

I particularly like the most recent picture sans hair. You are stylin' girl! Makes you look younger!

Truly, Judy, you do look amazing and I am so proud of you! Hang in there,gal, and know that you are constantly in our thoughts and prayers!

Sounds like all the perseverance is paying off! YEAH!

Love and hugs,
Ann and John

Anonymous said...

Dearest Judith,

So sorry to hear you will not be home for Christmas!

However, I am extremely glad to hear you only have 2 more treatments to endure.

Please know that you are in our hearts and prayers.

Love ya,
Debra

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Vacherie, Louisiana, United States
Born in rural Arkansas my tongue took up residence in my cheek shortly thereafter. I use it to speak "Genteel Southern Lady". Cussin' I only use when provoked by the Uppity. Paul, my husband, and I have lived in Cajun Country for many years raising cane, twins (a boy and a girl; now adults? definitely old) and other mischief. Alligators, water moccassins and bears have tussled with me as I protect our swampy coastal farmstead. We are stuck now on lovely Lake Hamilton near Hot Springs where we have our second home. We have been here waiting for Godot since my heart valves blew out Late November 2007 and now with cancer diagnosed August 2008. The Furies have me in their sights... I am writing this blog to let my Beloveds know how I am doing so they will not "get off" in imagined ways on my dire straits. The reality is bad enough without turning my story into a B-grade movie of the mind. I know all of you wish me the very best. And I miss you! never no mind your fevered imaginations. This is as close as I can get to a fond and loving chat with you right now... Sadly, Judy aka Mizflounce passed away peacefully early on Sunday morning May 30th 2009 age 78.